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Oh Long John wrote:So me and my boyfriend have been wanting to try out a threesome for awhile now, but we have no idea how to go about initiating one.The only other time I've had one it was completely spontaneous and involved large amounts of alcohol and a crazy chick...but was definitely more luck than strategy. Anyways, its really awkward to go up to drunk chicks at bars and ask if they want to have sex with you and your boyfriend, and my experience at gay clubs has been that the lesbos get really offended/grossed out when you bring up any mention of a dick being involved or even in the vicinity ( I'm not hating on the gays I promise, I'm bi). It would be awesome if there was some kind of foot tapping signal like gay men do in bathrooms or something to initiate a threesome but sighhh there isn't so I was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to even go about it without paying for it in Vegas or ending up with AIDS.
Side note: for any of you that have had a threesome, has it had any negative effects on your relationship?
lemonlime wrote:Why not bring it up with a good friend or acquaintance whom you trust not to trash-talk if she's not up for it? If it's someone already dear to you, it seems like that would make her more likely to agree, rather than less, and also enhance the experience.If you know someone renowned for her tight lips, she might be the one to ask even if she isn't what you initially had in mind.
Good posts from several people suggesting this is a horrible idea and will doom the relationship
demozthense wrote:Twice! One had some lasting repercussions, but I was dating a guy who was already cheating on me and generally being a controlling asshole. The other time I was seeing a guy and we were really good together, nothing bad happened at all other than the fact that we didn't have enough cream for three cups of coffee in the morning.
I'm a bisexual woman, too, and I've suggested it to my current boyfriend, who's never had a threesome before. He's trying to figure out his own limits, since he'd dated a few really jealous chicks before me - so we're working up to it, visiting strip clubs together and having fun flirting with girls at parties. If he's up to it in the end, cool, if he isn't, no huge loss! If you've never done this before, a gradual approach like that might help you a lot...and getting dueling lapdances right next to your boyfriend can be really hot.
Hi I'm a fucking trainwreck. I've had one 3some end a relationship - but I'll rationalize that away by saying well he was an asshole anyway so that's okay. Now watch me go do this again.
Stultus Maximus wrote:Well, I had one that also involved spontaneity and copious booze, but instead of a crazy chick it was a good friend of ours who is also a lesbian. I should probably also add that this meant that it might count as a "true" threesome since she didn't really want any cockbut was fine with kissing and groping (the copious booze was probably key in that). It was more that we both fucked my (then) fiancée and kind of made out with each other.
Goons too pathetic to even actually get fucked by the 2nd woman in a threesome? Shocking.
Various posters suggesting hiring a hooker for a threesome and others suggesting pulling off a date-rape on a friend by getting her hammeredto the point she'd be pliable enough to maybe engage in a threesome.
Boris Niveus wrote:My wife and I are open to threesomes among other things, it's been a year or so since anything happened along those lines but we know if we ever want to spice things up or one/both of us really want to fuck a chick we know for whatever reason.Just the option being there does wonders for our relationship in regards to honesty, openness, and most importantly being able to perv on women together without one of us getting jealous/bitchy.
Never ended a relationship because of one, but a result or two of having one has contributed in some cases usually because of jealousy or one partner not being honest why they want a threesome.
Nope no problems here. Clearly emotionally mature, healthy couple. (Please God don't let them have kids.)
IcedPee wrote:he only group sex I ever had was with people I already knew, so I would suggest that route. HOWEVER - One time it resulted in the breakup of an engagement. I view that as dodging a bullet, though, since I felt pretty sure it would have been bad had they gotten married.
Watch me rationalize this. Just watch. See. There. Done.
revolver_pookie wrote:I can beat that: A friend of mine had a three-way, on is wedding night, with his wife included.I had nothing to do with this train wreck. The couple is still married, but I haven't seen them in forever, God only knows what they're up to.
Goons friends with mentally fucked-up and emotionally bankrupt people? Who'd a thunk it?
