Men Beneath the Ruins

by **internetinternetinternet** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 5:54 am

You should end all conversations with loved ones with the words "I love you." You never know when people you love will be taken from you. This is a way to ensure your last words with them will be words of love.

Even if you are mad with them, especially is you are mad with them, just throw it in there before you walk away or hang up the phone.

by **lomo taxual** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 6:05 am

who died?

by **internetinternetinternet** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 6:08 am

lomo taxual wrote:who died?

no one. but i have always ended phone calls with my dad or mom with "i love you" (never been on those terms with a girlfriend, though this one is getting there) and i figured out why i do so.

by **Captain Walker** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 6:36 am

Strong disagree. If you have to persuade your loved ones into believing you love them then something is amiss. Like if you didn't tell them they wouldn't know. If you really do love them they should know it without you saying it. And they should know it all the time.

I file this in the same category of "quality time." You can't have a relationship built only on spending a couple hours a week together and ending your (brief, infrequent) interactions by telling them you love them. Baby boomers invented these things to reassure themselves that they aren't really selfish people and horrible spouses/parents.

by **afrika obamaataa** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 7:05 am

I've lost more in six month than most people lose in decades. Ending shit in some formulaic doesnt mean much. Judge hope you made the best of the last.

by **internetinternetinternet** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 7:06 am

Mister Han Man wrote:Strong disagree. If you have to persuade your loved ones into believing you love them then something is amiss. Like if you didn't tell them they wouldn't know. If you really do love them they should know it without you saying it. And they should know it all the time.

I file this in the same category of "quality time." You can't have a relationship built only on spending a couple hours a week together and ending your (brief, infrequent) interactions by telling them you love them. Baby boomers invented these things to reassure themselves that they aren't really selfish people and horrible spouses/parents.

it is not convince them. my parents don't need me to convince them that i love them. it is a reminder, like a mantra. and a positive sending off.

by **afrika obamaataa** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 7:08 am

internetinternetinternet wrote:
Mister Han Man wrote:Strong disagree. If you have to persuade your loved ones into believing you love them then something is amiss. Like if you didn't tell them they wouldn't know. If you really do love them they should know it without you saying it. And they should know it all the time.

I file this in the same category of "quality time." You can't have a relationship built only on spending a couple hours a week together and ending your (brief, infrequent) interactions by telling them you love them. Baby boomers invented these things to reassure themselves that they aren't really selfish people and horrible spouses/parents.

it is not convince them. my parents don't need me to convince them that i love them. it is a reminder, like a mantra. and a positive sending off.

the bugle call

by **wemier** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 8:14 am

internetinternetinternet wrote:
lomo taxual wrote:who died?

no one. but i have always ended phone calls with my dad or mom with "i love you" (never been on those terms with a girlfriend, though this one is getting there) and i figured out why i do so.

faggot

by **Louise Beaver 2020** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 8:39 am

"stop piling that shit into my office, woman. You have your own office and if it's full of shit then you need less shit. No, I'm going to the pub tonight. No, I don't care what stupid shit your sister has pulled this time. Well fuck you too honey. PS. I love you"

by **MistaDibs** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 11:51 am

I sorta agree with iii. Some people are just really big suckers for these kinds of words, especially your moms or stoic dads. And really, it just makes you seem all around warmer, somehow.

On the other hand, there are people who abuse and inflate those words so much that they nearly lose all meaning and almost become the de facto "goodbye"

by **Jared Loughner** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 12:11 pm

internetinternetinternet wrote:You should end all conversations with loved ones with the words "I love you." You never know when people you love will be taken from you. This is a way to ensure your last words with them will be words of love.

Even if you are mad with them, especially is you are mad with them, just throw it in there before you walk away or hang up the phone.

I found out acting like I am over joyed to see some body helps create a bond and makes friends quicker.

Love bombing is another tactic with friends and loved ones to ensure they feel special. I would not recommend doing this with strangers because makes you look creepy as hell.

by **Captain Walker** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 1:18 pm

internetinternetinternet wrote:
Mister Han Man wrote:Strong disagree. If you have to persuade your loved ones into believing you love them then something is amiss. Like if you didn't tell them they wouldn't know. If you really do love them they should know it without you saying it. And they should know it all the time.

I file this in the same category of "quality time." You can't have a relationship built only on spending a couple hours a week together and ending your (brief, infrequent) interactions by telling them you love them. Baby boomers invented these things to reassure themselves that they aren't really selfish people and horrible spouses/parents.

it is not convince them. my parents don't need me to convince them that i love them. it is a reminder, like a mantra. and a positive sending off.

That doesn't make the sendoff any more positive, it just cheapens the expression.

"Here's your hot dog, sir. I love you."

by **Account Sharing** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 1:45 pm

welcome to costco. i love you.

by **Louise Beaver 2020** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 1:57 pm

nancyboy come back, I love you

by **George 'Hannibal' Peppard** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 2:45 pm

MistaDibs wrote:I sorta agree with iii. Some people are just really big suckers for these kinds of words, especially your moms or stoic dads. And really, it just makes you seem all around warmer, somehow.

On the other hand, there are people who abuse and inflate those words so much that they nearly lose all meaning and almost become the de facto "goodbye"

yah youd be surprised how cosmetic affectations change how people think of you, as long as you're not totally backhanded about it, like just simple "thank you" and "i appreciate it" to express gratitude or giving compliments before criticisms etc. i thought you were a sucker for ritual anyway hangly

by **veteran of forum wars** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 4:32 pm

Mister Han Man wrote:
internetinternetinternet wrote:
Mister Han Man wrote:Strong disagree. If you have to persuade your loved ones into believing you love them then something is amiss. Like if you didn't tell them they wouldn't know. If you really do love them they should know it without you saying it. And they should know it all the time.

I file this in the same category of "quality time." You can't have a relationship built only on spending a couple hours a week together and ending your (brief, infrequent) interactions by telling them you love them. Baby boomers invented these things to reassure themselves that they aren't really selfish people and horrible spouses/parents.

it is not convince them. my parents don't need me to convince them that i love them. it is a reminder, like a mantra. and a positive sending off.

That doesn't make the sendoff any more positive, it just cheapens the expression.

"Here's your hot dog, sir. I love you."

lifestyle.
You have to earn love boy. Go play with those rusty nails in the corner while I handle this here Internetting.

by **Procrustes** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 7:42 pm

Welcome to the gayest fucking forums on the internet, I love you

Seriously getting upset because people say 'I love you' too much to the people they love is ridiculous in the extreme, especially when you're simultaneously whining about how tranny faggots hurt mommy's precious widdle feelings by chopping off their cock.

For Christ's sweet sake all III is saying is that you should demonstrate to people that you love them because one day you're going to leave the house and never come home again. I kiss my wife goodbye and tell her I love her every day because I can't imagine how my wife would feel if my last words to her before dying in a car accident were "don't leave the coffee on too long again".

This is one of those things that reveals a persons sense of self-worth.

by **polonium** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 8:02 pm

I don't even know if hangly is being contrary for the sake of it, but nobody suggested saying " love you" to every person you meet as a casual greeting. I'm of the belief you shouldn't say it unless you mean it, but if you mean it then you shouldn't be afraid of saying it. That goes for most things.

by **veteran of forum wars** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 8:03 pm

by **Jared Loughner** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 8:41 pm

polonium wrote:I don't even know if hangly is being contrary for the sake of it, but nobody suggested saying " love you" to every person you meet as a casual greeting. I'm of the belief you shouldn't say it unless you mean it, but if you mean it then you shouldn't be afraid of saying it. That goes for most things.

I as a guy agree with this. Yet the trouble is woman place more value on what you say then what you do.

Example:

Guy: "I can't believe what she did to me that damn bitch. Why would she do this to me? I thought she loved me, now I am not so sure. Wait a sec... now I think about it, that woman been behaving suspiciously lately. I think by the way she been acting lately, she is up to something else. I got be careful because I have no idea what she may do next"

Woman: "I don't care if I actually caught Jerome in bed with my sister. He would never do that, because he SAID he would never do that to me! What do you mean you want to to tell again play by play about what I exactly saw in detail with both of them up completely buck ass naked and against the wall and him being balls deep in her while performing anal sex?
Yes, I did see his face and yes it was him and even through I seen it with my own eyes, I know it wasn't him because he TOLD ME it wasn't him! Don't you get it or are you just flat not listening to me again!?"

by **Captain Walker** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 9:07 pm

Procrustes wrote:Welcome to the gayest fucking forums on the internet, I love you

Seriously getting upset because people say 'I love you' too much to the people they love is ridiculous in the extreme, especially when you're simultaneously whining about how tranny faggots hurt mommy's precious widdle feelings by chopping off their cock.

For Christ's sweet sake all III is saying is that you should demonstrate to people that you love them because one day you're going to leave the house and never come home again. I kiss my wife goodbye and tell her I love her every day because I can't imagine how my wife would feel if my last words to her before dying in a car accident were "don't leave the coffee on too long again".

This is one of those things that reveals a persons sense of self-worth.

I'm going to post your picture if you don't chill the fuck out.

by **internetinternetinternet** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 10:27 pm

Mister Han Man wrote:
internetinternetinternet wrote:
Mister Han Man wrote:Strong disagree. If you have to persuade your loved ones into believing you love them then something is amiss. Like if you didn't tell them they wouldn't know. If you really do love them they should know it without you saying it. And they should know it all the time.

I file this in the same category of "quality time." You can't have a relationship built only on spending a couple hours a week together and ending your (brief, infrequent) interactions by telling them you love them. Baby boomers invented these things to reassure themselves that they aren't really selfish people and horrible spouses/parents.

it is not convince them. my parents don't need me to convince them that i love them. it is a reminder, like a mantra. and a positive sending off.

That doesn't make the sendoff any more positive, it just cheapens the expression.

"Here's your hot dog, sir. I love you."

lol. i am only talking about close family.

by **androgynousandroid** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 11:19 pm

Mister Han Man wrote:
Procrustes wrote:Welcome to the gayest fucking forums on the internet, I love you

Seriously getting upset because people say 'I love you' too much to the people they love is ridiculous in the extreme, especially when you're simultaneously whining about how tranny faggots hurt mommy's precious widdle feelings by chopping off their cock.

For Christ's sweet sake all III is saying is that you should demonstrate to people that you love them because one day you're going to leave the house and never come home again. I kiss my wife goodbye and tell her I love her every day because I can't imagine how my wife would feel if my last words to her before dying in a car accident were "don't leave the coffee on too long again".

This is one of those things that reveals a persons sense of self-worth.

I'm going to post your picture if you don't chill the fuck out.

Hangly-san entering depressive state... :drew:

by **androgynousandroid** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 11:25 pm

To be on topic though if you have loved ones whom which you regularly end conversations with by saying "I love you", then consciously not tell them that because you're angry and then they die suddenly... Well that would suck.

by **polonium** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 11:40 pm

AndrogynousAndroid wrote:To be on topic though if you have loved ones whom which you regularly end conversations with by saying "I love you", then consciously not tell them that because you're angry and then they die suddenly... Well that would suck.

Regret is a perfectly natural emotion. It's part of how we learn. If you don't say it, and later wish you had, that's nature's way of letting you know you're not as angry as you thought you were.

by **androgynousandroid** » Tue Aug 24, 2010 5:43 am

polonium wrote:
AndrogynousAndroid wrote:To be on topic though if you have loved ones whom which you regularly end conversations with by saying "I love you", then consciously not tell them that because you're angry and then they die suddenly... Well that would suck.

Regret is a perfectly natural emotion. It's part of how we learn. If you don't say it, and later wish you had, that's nature's way of letting you know you're not as angry as you thought you were.

Exactly. Thats why I agree with the OP. :mao:

by **MistaDibs** » Tue Aug 24, 2010 9:39 am

What doesn't let me sleep at night is the thought that if I had an accident, my last words in chat could be "BARREN CHAT" :lfsay:

by **coon mover** » Tue Aug 24, 2010 8:05 pm

Procrustes wrote:For Christ's sweet sake all III is saying is that you should demonstrate to people that you love them because one day you're going to leave the house and never come home again. I kiss my wife goodbye and tell her I love her every day because I can't imagine how my wife would feel if my last words to her before dying in a car accident were "don't leave the coffee on too long again".

by **Procrustes** » Tue Aug 24, 2010 8:07 pm

Mister Han Man wrote:
Procrustes wrote:Welcome to the gayest fucking forums on the internet, I love you

Seriously getting upset because people say 'I love you' too much to the people they love is ridiculous in the extreme, especially when you're simultaneously whining about how tranny faggots hurt mommy's precious widdle feelings by chopping off their cock.

For Christ's sweet sake all III is saying is that you should demonstrate to people that you love them because one day you're going to leave the house and never come home again. I kiss my wife goodbye and tell her I love her every day because I can't imagine how my wife would feel if my last words to her before dying in a car accident were "don't leave the coffee on too long again".

This is one of those things that reveals a persons sense of self-worth.

I'm going to post your picture if you don't chill the fuck out.

by **Captain Walker** » Wed Aug 25, 2010 12:34 am

afrika obamaataa wrote:I've lost more in six month than most people lose in decades.

Don't know what to say but I can't let this go uncommented-on. That must suck

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